Several of my empty-nest mom-friends and I have entered a new phase in our prayer lives: praying for prodigal children. At one time, our children knew, loved, and followed Jesus. By the time these children became young adults, they had abandoned the faith of their childhood. As mothers, that inspired us to pray for our children’s return to the God who loves them.
In Luke 15:11-32, the biblical account of the prodigal son, the father waited expectantly for his estranged son to return home. The important detail not recorded is how long the father waited. I know mothers who have prayed and waited decades for their prodigals to return to Jesus. Time spent in prayer is much more productive than wondering and worrying about an estranged child. But I find it difficult to focus on the praying, not the worrying.
How long, LORD? Will you forget me forever? How long will you hide your face from me? How long must I wrestle with my thoughts and day after day have sorrow in my heart? Psalm 13:1-2
No one consistent reason compels young adults to walk away from their faith. Instead, many aspects of life and longing impact children who once believed in Jesus to become adults who do not. Their journey may involve being distracted from biblical priorities, neglecting connection with Jesus, choosing worldly pursuits, or rebelling against God. Sadly, these adult children no longer value God’s love, Jesus’ sacrifice, or the truths of God’s Word. And that motivates moms to pray.
Answer me when I call to you, my righteous God. Give me relief from my distress; have mercy on me and hear my prayer. Psalm 4:1
Lord God, my child is your prodigal, a runaway from your love and forgiveness. Overcome the spiritual darkness that threatens to suffocate my child. Shine your Holy Spirit’s light of conviction, counsel, and comfort into my child’s life. Lord Jesus, accomplish your saving, redeeming work. Fill my prodigal’s mind with the truth of Jesus Christ, bringing forgiveness and freedom. Let my child once again be grounded in you, God.
Oh Lord, help me to see and listen, not jump in with my own solutions. I repent of what I have done wrong: nagging conversations, mother-smothering, pride-driven meddling, and even wanting to give up. Lord, forgive me for what I have not done: not listened to your leading, not controlled my temper, and not recognized my child’s pain.
After he had squandered his inheritance, the biblical prodigal son came home. Convicted and repentant, the son returned to his father with humility and a willingness to serve. Luke 15:20 says, “But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him.” We do not find out how many months or years had transpired. Instead, the Bible focuses on the father’s joyous and loving greeting.
I call on you, my God, for you will answer me; turn your ear to me and hear my prayer. Psalm 17:6
Father God, draw my prodigal back to you. You love my child more than I ever could. Convince my child to return to you in honesty and repentance, in order to experience your forgiveness and perfect love. Please help me to be a faithful mother who never stops praying. In Jesus’ name. Amen.