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September 28, 2015 by Kristina Lunde 806 Comments

Kids and Bible Memory Verses: Viola’s Got it!

Dear Haley,

So you were wondering how to squeeze your three year old Viola’s memory verses into your week of work, caring for Viola and her little sister, and life in general – not to mention that you are pregnant?! (Pregnancy alone will exhaust a mom!)

First of all, you are to be congratulated for getting Viola to AWANAs on Wednesday nights. That in itself is an achievement! Please be good to yourself and stay realistic about your family goals. (That growing baby in you is commandeering much of your energy and resources.)

Viola has a great time at AWANAs. She is bright and eager – a quick learner and an engaged thinker. What I love is the way her face shines when she says her memory verses. Viola truly delights in God’s Word (Psalm 1:2.) For me, there is no greater reward to this volunteer gig.

AWANA is a great program, but it was never designed to put pressure on you. (You have a preschooler, a toddler, and you are pregnant. I’m tired just thinking about your workload!) Please don’t berate yourself for not reviewing the memory verse with your oldest. The Bible verses are shortened to 3-8 word lengths, but they can still be a challenge for the little ones to memorize.

I remember being a mom of young children and feeling the time squeeze of getting my kids to memorize Bible verses. Memorization is a good thing, something I value, but often memory work became one more chore, one more sheet on the fridge not to forget, one more item on the never-ending list of things to do with and for my kids. (That is, if the list stayed on the fridge . . . if I didn’t forget . . . if we got to it in time before the due date . . .)

(Note to my younger self:) God’s Word is very important, but as parents, we need to focus on building a lifelong love of God’s Word in our children, not just getting them to earn checkmarks on a page. Memorizing God’s Word is a process that starts when our children are little. They will build on the seeds sown now, as we role model the importance of learning from the Bible. Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it, as Proverbs 22:6 encourages us.

God’s Word is not meant to merely leave our lips, but to live in our hearts.

 As volunteers, we try to help these preschool students understand who God is and how He loves them, using the AWANA Cubbies curriculum to present these concepts through story-telling, puppet shows, singing, and even while playing games in the gym. We repeatedly explain concepts like sin, shepherd, and creation, so they can understand what the verse talks about. Sometimes we barely get to practice the pronunciation of the words, let alone memorize the verse. Please know that we do our best for little Viola and her classmates.

Lord, may your word not be something that merely leaves Viola’s lips, but that deeply roots your love in her heart. Bless Haley with the rest, energy, and encouragement she needs to be the amazing mother you have called her to be. Amen.

[Originally posted April 2015]

Filed Under: Letter, Parenting Tagged With: AWANA, Bible memory verses, letter, parenting

September 28, 2015 by Kristina Lunde 1,237 Comments

Man-child, Vomit, and the School Nurse

Man-child cooked himself a big breakfast that morning before school, but suddenly he felt ill. “I’m going to throw up!” he yelled as he ran in the bathroom, and accomplished said task.

“Please go lie down. Stay home and rest, at least for awhile until you feel better. Then you can go into school later if you feel okay.” I urged, knowing that he would not take my advice.

I walked over toward him with my hand held out. “Let me feel if you have a fever.” No warmth, perspiration, or sign of a fever. No further vomiting. “You should still stay home,” I pleaded.

“No, I have to go to school. I’ll just check in with the nurse and get a pass,” countered man-child.

“That’s my line! This is role reversal again. Just stay home and rest for awhile – you can go in later.” Conceding this mother versus man-child battle, albeit minor in scope, I let him go to school.

The scenario continued to be amusing when I called in to the high school nursing office. I recognized the nurse Shelly as one of my workout friends from the YMCA.  “Oh, hi Shelly. I’m the delinquent mom who sent my sick kid to school.”

“It was actually refreshing to have a student want to go to class. Usually they are in here trying to get out of going to class.” Shelly’s sense of humor was a welcome contrast to my frustration.

“Well, I tried at home. He doesn’t have a fever, but I wanted to keep him at home to at least sleep for a bit. But I couldn’t talk any sense into him. I was hoping you could.” My irritated attitude toward my son persisted.

“He was going to try class. I wrote out a pass for him just in case; he’ll come back to my office if he still feels sick.”

“Great. He’ll infect everyone in choir. Oh well. I tried. I just wanted to let you know,” I mumbled in guilty resignation.

“Don’t worry about it. We’ll take care of him. If he comes back and is sick, I’ll send him home.” With her optimistic nature and confident reassurance, Shelly absolved me of my guilt.

Who prepares you for these parenting challenges?!  I certainly was taken by surprise when strong-willed man-child argued to go to school when given the option of staying home, stopped by the nurse’s office with an announcement of his illness yet insisted on attending class, and persevered through school after a vomiting episode. Strange acts of defiance against a mom who merely wanted him to stay home and rest.

Thank God for helpful, caring professionals in my community that help me with my parenting. And who keep me from losing my patience with puke-boy.

[Originally posted March 2015]

Filed Under: Parenting Tagged With: man-child, parenting

September 28, 2015 by Kristina Lunde 2,069 Comments

Praying for the Terminally Ill: Four Rs for Ruth

My mother’s best friend and prayer partner, Ruth, battled breast cancer for years. When the cancer invaded her bones, Ruth’s army of prayer warriors beseeched God to slay the dreaded disease. For many years God miraculously subdued Ruth’s cancer and pain as she continued to write, teach, counsel, and minister for His glory.

My prayers for Ruth were admittedly often fear-based rather than faith based. I could not imagine such a strong woman of God being overpowered and her ministry silenced by this horrendous cancer. As when my mother was on hospice, I frequently hesitated to pray for healing, for fear that God would answer with His ultimate healing. Our loved ones are welcomed into heaven and live eternally pain-free, but those of us left behind have to cope without them. (No, God, that’s not what I meant! I wanted you to heal her here and now – for us.) My selfish desire for them to be healthy here on earth does not always match up with God’s plan for them, and I am left to grieve the difference.

When I asked God how to pray for Ruth, He gave me a prayer mnemonic that I now use for anyone facing the end of their earthly life. These are the four Rs for Ruth:

1. Relief of pain

May God grant wisdom to everyone involved in decision-making as the focus shifts from medical cure to palliative care. May the pain be miraculously eased by God’s power and provision throughout the remaining hours/days/months of life.

2. Rest and sleep

In the midst of pain and illness, may God give sweet sleep and rest.

3. Relationship with spouse/family

In the time warp of illness and pain, may God shower this couple/family with precious intimacy as their earthly time together draws to a close.

4. Reconciliation

May God orchestrate time schedules, travel arrangements, and interactions as family and friends come to say goodbye. May God’s peace and emotional healing provide closure to relationships.

Lord, teach us to pray, even when our loved one’s ultimate healing leaves us grieving.

[Originally posted March 2015]

 

Filed Under: Prayer Tagged With: cancer, prayer, terminally ill

September 28, 2015 by Kristina Lunde 1,269 Comments

Ruth Olson’s Legacy

Ruth Olson died peacefully on January 19, 2015 after her long journey through metastatic breast cancer. How fitting that such a devoted advocate for pregnant mothers and unborn babies died the night after Sanctity of Human Life Sunday.

Poured out onto her family, church, community, and beyond, Ruth’s lifelong gifts of service are a legacy worth commemorating. In honoring Ruth, we honor the God who infused her with trailblazing talents, ministry leadership, and a passion to share Jesus’ love.

A memorable impression of Ruth was her rich, full soprano singing voice and the excitement she brought to praise and worship gatherings. Ruth sang like a soloist, with the vibrato, projection, and descants of a soprano star, but she stayed focused on the God she was praising. In the early 1970s, as a distracted kid looking around at church members singing with closed eyes, I curiously noticed that the adults, Ruth included, were focused on worship and purposeful about the lyrics. Ruth never knew that she had at least one kid marveling at how her vibrato worked.

Ruth was a trailblazer in many different aspects of her life. In a generation where tradition dictated that women should not wear long hair after age forty, Ruth kept her wavy black hair long and full. Not until decades later, after many rounds of chemotherapy, did Ruth keep her salt and pepper waves above shoulder length.

In ministry and otherwise, Ruth always functioned with her husband Jerry’s support and collaboration. Whether they counseled families together or he backed her outreach to women, Ruth and Jerry were partners in their service to God. Occasionally, couples would show up at the Olson’s house at 10:30 at night, desperate for marriage counseling. Jerry and Ruth would drop everything, offer their hospitality, and pour God’s love into hurting lives, no matter who came to their door. When they weren’t ministering at night, the Olsons occasionally chased their cows that had escaped the fenced pasture. As a child, my impression of Jerry and Ruth was that they were night owls – dealing either with angry couples or wayward cows.

Long before the ease of clip art, printing a bulletin involved hours of typing up stencils and making mimeographed copies. As church secretary, Ruth often drew unique little pictures to add to the bulletin. Her gifts of organization, artistic skills, and heartfelt writing blessed many people in her role of secretary, and also in her later life roles of pastor’s wife, counselor, speaker, and author. Using church bulletins, newsletters, and her self-published books, Ruth continued to communicate her faith and love for Jesus through the printed word.

Many women’s groups were blessed by Ruth’s ministry of speaking and teaching God’s Word. My mother’s role was to sit in the back row and intercede for God’s truth and blessing during these events. After the message, Ruth would spend hours ministering to women one-on-one: listening, encouraging, and praying with them. My mother returned from those outreaches exhausted, wondering how Ruth could continue to give so much to so many, especially the additional ministry after she spoke.

Although Ruth focused her ministry on local outreaches, such as founding a pregnancy assistance center in Red Wing and speaking at Women’s Aglow meetings, her Gentle Doves ministry reached far beyond the region. Ruth’s goal in writing Gentle Doves, a Christian newsletter, was to encourage women in their walk with the Lord. The monthly magazine contained articles on topics as varied as end-time prophecy, pro-life perspective, and household helps. In the late 1980s, my parents used a dot matrix printer to print address labels. Then they gathered with other volunteers at their dining room table to label and sort the mail by hand. At its peak, the newsletter was mailed out to over 1500 people in the United States and internationally. Ruth later expanded the Gentle Doves magazine to an online presence with Bible studies, articles, book descriptions, and her blog.

Before self-publishing was easy or common, Ruth self-published several books and made them available during her speaking presentations. Ruth’s last book chronicled her adjustment to the diagnosis of breast cancer from her perspective as a retired registered nurse. She shared what she learned, her selfless motivation evidenced by the title, My Gift to You: Encouragement During a Cancer Crisis. The long journey Ruth faced through breast cancer and subsequent bone metastasis became her ministry outreach to those facing the same diagnosis. Her calm dignity and constant focus on Jesus’ love for others were the hallmarks of her approach to cancer.

When her health declined and she could no longer attend speaking engagements, Ruth’s heart for ministry never wavered. Recently, she focused her efforts on personally supporting, and raising money for, impoverished families in Africa. One of her last outings, as breathing and walking were an obvious struggle, was spent wiring monetary support to an African pastor.

Ruth lived her life pursuing God’s work and ministering wherever God called her. May Ruth Olson’s legacy inspire us to passionately serve the amazing God she loved and lived for.

[Originally posted February 2015]

Filed Under: Grief Tagged With: eulogy, grief, legacy

September 28, 2015 by Kristina Lunde 1,365 Comments

Pillowcase Dresses

Dear little girl in Africa,

Please accept this pillowcase dress as a gift from me, a mother over in America. No, we don’t know each other, and we probably won’t ever meet. But God knows you and loves you very much.

 

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Please don’t look at my stitches – look to the God who loves you.

 

I haven’t taken my sewing machine out in years, and I haven’t sewn a garment in decades. God was the one who gave me the opportunity to sew for you. It wasn’t my idea, but I knew that I wanted to be a part of the program my friend Barb started at our church. Barb knows a couple who travel on mission trips to Africa, and they like to give out pillowcase dresses. Barb had the idea to teach women from our church how to sew these dresses.

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Please don’t look at my stitches – look to the God who loves you.

 

With the instructions from Barb, some pillowcases donated by people in our church, and some supplies I bought, I went to work. To sew. And sew. And sew. I made lots of dresses, praying over each one as I sewed. I prayed that through this gift, you would learn about God’s grace and how much He loves you. I prayed that God chose the colors and trim for these dresses to be exactly what you like. May God use this to show you how unique and precious you are to Him.

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Please don’t look at my stitches – look to the God who loves you.

 

Have you heard the story about the Israelites who wandered for forty years in the desert? Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers, and Deuteronomy, the second through fifth books of the Bible, tell their story. The Israelites had some tough lessons about discipline and obedience to learn, and they were often ungrateful and complaining towards God, but God still watched over them.  Deuteronomy 8:4 describes God’s amazing provision: “The clothes on your back did not wear out and your feet did not swell these forty years.” God miraculously protected and provided for them in the middle of a barren desert, making even their clothing last while they focused on their lessons. As I sewed your dress, I prayed that God would make it last far beyond the limits of my stitching, so that you could focus on learning about God and His gift of grace through His son Jesus.

Please don’t look at my stitches – look to the God who loves you.

 

I don’t even know the people delivering this dress to you, but I pray that they will also teach you about the grace, love, joy, forgiveness, and hope that you can have through God’s son Jesus. My prayer for you is that you will come to know the God of love through the gift of this pillowcase dress.

[Originally posted February 2015]

Filed Under: Letter Tagged With: letter, pillowcase dresses

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